The 14th was my wedding anniversary. It does not feel like I've been married that long. I wish I could go back in time and give myself some advice. It probably be something like this:
Dear me from 2007,
Don't worry. You married the right guy. He gets more and more awesome as time goes by. Hold him close, trust him, and he will become your strength. Your marriage is great, solid, and secure.
You can get pregnant. Just because you didn't get pregnant on your honeymoon doesn't mean you're infertile. Calm down, relax, and let it happen.
Speaking of pregnancy, it is no picnic. But your babies are totally worth it. Also, not having a boy is not the end of the world. The Aberg name will live on, even of its not through you.
You know how you feel fat at 150 lbs and you hate your "tiny boobs and big thighs"? Just wait until after you have babies.
Money will be tight. You will get into debt. It's not the end of the world. It is a necessary evil for now.
Your kids are amazing. Trust your intuition. Even if everyone criticizes how you are raising them, pray, and listen to your instincts.
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