"Diet"

I've been doing a lot of praying and thinking about my weight. As of today, I am 217 lbs. And I hate it. I hate how I look in a bathing suit. I hate that I can't find shorts that fit me (I'm between a size 16 and 18). I hate that there is a guy at church that keeps asking me if I'm pregnant (he's mentally handicapped, but still).
So, I'm starting a "diet." I can't count calories because I will starve myself all day to eat junk at night. I don't agree with cutting out bread or milk or sugar (I think that all things should be in consideration). This is what I've come up with:
Breakfast: One bowl of cereal
Lunch: Yogurt and granola
Dinner: Salad and one helping of the main course
Snacks: All the fruit I want, string cheese,
Drinks: Water
Dessert: Homemade cookies (6 or less) or a glass of chocolate milk (not every night)
Exercise is difficult with Rose being so needy lately. But I'm going to attempt to walk in the evenings.
Wish me luck!